Potty training: are they ready?
The American Academy of Pediatrics says the average age toilet training begins in the United States is between 2 and 3 years, and that most children are bowel and bladder trained by 4. Signs of readiness include staying dry for at least 2 hours, following simple instructions and asking to use the potty.
Checked October 29, 2026.
What are the signs my child is ready?
From the AAP, signs of bladder and bowel control often show between 18 and 24 months. Look for a child who:
- is dry at least 2 hours at a time during the day, or is dry after naps;
- shows signs they are about to pee or poop, like grunting, freezing or squatting;
- can walk to and from the bathroom and help undress themselves;
- can follow simple instructions;
- does not like to be in wet diapers and wants to be changed;
- asks to use the toilet or potty chair, or asks to wear "big-kid" underwear.
How do I keep it positive?
The AAP's tips include avoiding treats and punishments, being specific about why you are proud when your child succeeds, and expecting hesitancy and accidents. After an accident, help your child stay in charge by having them help with the cleanup. It says rewarding and punishing keep children from managing their own toileting, so the sticker chart below is for marking progress, not for bribes.
Tools for potty training
Print a potty sticker chart, or read the story Learning to use the potty together.